Track Star

Overcoming an obstacle is just like jumping a hurdle. Sometimes you have to stop hesitating and just jump.

On To The Next Chapter

Sometimes life will throw you curveballs, and the only thing you can do is choke up on the bat and swing away.

Dont Fear The Intimidation

Fear of the unknown is still inevitable, but don't fear the unknown through intimidation. Intimidation is a sign of weakness. Don't fall victim to someone elses short comings.

What You Reap Is What You Deserve

Know that the good and the bad coincide with each other. Even though the bad is not known right away, eventually it will show its face.

Don't Complain In Vain

Men are not mind readers. If an issue has occurred and it was not expressed at the time of occurrence, then it should not be relevant enough to bring up only to enhance another complaint. Men are simple; they can only fix one problem at a time.

Seperation Anxiety

Sometimes you have to seperate confusion from the source. If you can manipulate the source, confusion is reverted. Play Smart.

When Rumors Live

Rumors only live when you give a reaction. But how can someone already know the answer to a question that they have not asked you. If you have defended yourself to no avail, stop. Your defense only feeds what they didn't know about you.

Do What You Say, Say What You Mean

We often change our minds given a situation or circumstance. But if your being told its just the way you think, you may want to take your own good advice. Your mind may tell you there is a problem, but your emotions find a way to alleviate the problem. Its better to hurt a little emotionally than to derail yourself mentally.

Who Cares ????

Dont believe no one cares about your personal feelings. But if your feelings are so personal and your leaving out specific details, why would anyone care if you say your hurt, but they don't know what the hurt is or where it came from, or when it happened. No one will spend that much time figuring out a riddle that you have the answer to but haven't told. People care, they just care about themselves more.

The Truth Come With No Light

When you obtain the truth, it can seem like a weight has been placed on your shoulders, but sometimes the truth thats unknown is the reaction that is awaited upon. Don't let on immediately when you know the truth. Sometimes you just have to wonder how long people will lie directly to you and still believe that you'll never know your being misled.

Love Vs. Lust

Love and Lust share similar qualities but are very distinct in their own right. Love endures all things, lust just covers them up. Don't misinterpret lust for love. You'll get confused in the two and lust in the part of love that is harder to come back from. Treat yourself with respect, becuase no one else will until you demand it.

She Loves, He loves

Don't feel ashamed if you have given your love and it was not recriprocated. Sometimes misleading actions can lead to an unstable condition. Love openly, but be wise.

"Wish Them Well"

Sometimes you have the wish the people in you life, well regardless if they have wronged you or if you have wronged them. Don't let others manipulate you from your goals in life. Some people only latch on to the anger because if comforts them, but anger is still cruel and fury is still overwhelming.

Take Your Time

Allow yourself time to heal after a war wound. You'll never know how much strength you will need in order to endure your next battle.

Good Woman vs ........

A good woman is easy to find, but don't believe just because your a good woman a man should automatically want to be with you. Men do not hone in to those special qualities that make a woman, so focusing on your own goodness will eventually break that woman, because who can say they are good enough to face their own flaws?

Why Wait ?

Don't wait around to find love. Love does not send announcements when it comes, so how do you know if love is in front of you, if your still waiting on it. Ease your mind, You'll have plenty of experience being impatient in love, so let it come on its own. When you go looking for love, your asking for trouble.

Know When To Be A Kid......

Enjoy the good moments, because the bad will always loom in the distance but if you don't learn to enjoy the good, you'll forever live in the moments of the bad.

Open The Door

Don't be afraid of whats on the other side of opportunity. If someone is meant to be apart of your future, they will be waiting for you on the other side.

K-9 Analogy

“ Men are dogs " is a common phrase used when referring to some men, but no one ever mentions the phrase " When you lay down with dogs, expect fleas. " If you choose to get a dog, then choose to train him to become loyal companions. A trained dogs' loyalty is only reserved for his trainer.

Celebrate Boys Who Will Become Men

With the growing number of men raised in fatherless homes, the pressure for a man to become a man is intensified. Because of this, a man's vulnerability will become is weakness. Do not blame a boy for his actions before he becomes a man. Some loves are envisioned but are not meant to be. Don't waste time on boys just because you think anything is still possible. Fairy tales are only for children.

Everybody Has Skeletons

Everyone has skeletons, some get exposed and some don't. Don't be afraid of your own skeletons. If you didn't want anyone to know about it, you shouldn't have done it. If people exploit your skeletons, it’s only because of the lengths you took to keep them concealed. Once exposed, be relieved, skeletons have to be continuously buried and the work it took to keep it hidden will only be in vain once revealed. Don't be ashamed of your past. Look forward to your future.

Accept, Don't Allow

Accept the fact that a man will be a man, but do not allow a man to disgrace your title as a woman. A man can only do what you allow him to do. Don't allow a man's word to convince you against what is right. You have the ultimate power. Use it !!!!

Get Out And Mingle

Sometimes when we feel ourselves being held back, its only because we are afraid to have the courage to move forward. If you allow past experiences to hinder your ability to pursue your own happiness, you will always hold yourself back and miss an opportunity when it knocks. Fear of the unknown is inevitable, but who knows what tomorrow will bring?

Patient and Kind

When we believe we are ready to handle everything love will throw at you, we sometimes lose sight of the true understanding of love. For woman, love comes easily, but the heart takes longer to overcome the break. Be patient in love for hasty actions lead to a hasty destruction. Be kind to yourself in love, and love will be kind in return.

Believe What You Know, Not Just What You Hear

As woman, our intuition is sometimes redirected by our emotions. Our heart encompasses the action behind every move we make, but our mind is what allows us to control those moves. A man will only see what is logical according to his perception. We only see whats logical according to our emotions. Allowing your emotions to alter your perception will only result in the response of the destruction of any relationship. A man is not capapable of understanding the full capacity of where a womans emotions are derived from. Harness your female intuition in order to see clear skies in a cloud filled with emotion.

Rationalize Your Emotions

Realize your emotions are embedded into your genetic make - up. You will never escape them. If your emotions are strong enough to stump your thought - to - mouth responses, then you are feeling an emotion that you don't fully understand. If you can't understand your own emotions, then it may be misguided. A & B will always come after another, so if you reach "C" before "B", then you missed a step.

Know Your Power

Some women believe their power lies within the most sacred part of a woman. Your pearl should only be seen as the core to your true power. If you allow your mind to believe your pearl is your only power, you will not only tarnish your pearl, but you will also weaken your true power. Your power is what enhances your pearls beauty. A beautiful mind is a terrible thing to waste.